Sex
Manners
By
Em Petrova
Rake your nails down his back…scream when he pulls
your hair…talk dirty until the neighbors beat on the wall…
Now that we’ve gotten what you WANT to do out of the
way, let’s talk about sex manners. Besides keeping those irate neighbors happy,
many men and women feel their lovers could amp it up in the bedroom. Too many
men doze off after sex, and men want to hear that they were the absolute BEST
lay you’ve ever had.
So how are your after sex manners? That’s right
guys. Even if your performance wasn’t award-winning, how you treat your woman
in the bedroom will make her prize you.
How do you do that? How about a playful slap on the
ass and a “fuck, you’re sexy?”
What about the mess of your blissful encounter?
There’s always some oozing squishiness, so why not hop up and grab a clean hot
towel. Or whisper, “Baby, I want to soap you all over. Come to the shower with
me.” That would go a long way with a lover…and heat things up for round 2.
Turn on your favorite soft music, hold her and talk.
Yes, women like to be romanced, but so do men, ladies. Everyone likes that
special time where you’ve given your undivided attention. Being in the buff
only creates a deeper connection. This goes a long way even for married
couples. When was the last time you didn’t jump out of bed, throw on your
clothes and dash downstairs to work/make a call/let the dog out? Take some time
with your special person and see what happens!
If you don’t live together, there are definite
manners to be kept. Walk her to her car, give her a soft kiss and let her know
how much you appreciated your time together. Don’t make her feel it was a booty
call! And pick up the cell and make sure she gets home safely. If you can’t
prop your eyelids open long enough to wait for her to get home, call or text in
the morning. Even if she doesn’t remember the actual sex, she’ll remember how
you treated her.
For ladies, there are some other types of rules.
Here’s one—Is it polite to fake orgasms? The answer is a resounding NO! It’s better
to be completely honest in a very nice way. You could tell him that though you
didn’t climax, you had a fun time and next time you could do more in the sack.
Which leads to the next question. What if your
favorite is missionary and his is reverse cowgirl? You’re entitled to your
preferences—some people actually orgasm faster in one position. But variety
spices up the bedroom! Experiment with new positions and don’t get locked into
one. That will only lead to boredom on both your parts. So bend over the bed
for him and wiggle that ass tantalizingly. Or shove him into the sheets and
mount him. You’ll drive him over the edge!
Another question of sex manners revolves around oral
sex. Do you have to reciprocate? Ummm, yes! Fair is fair. If you’re receiving,
expect to give. It’s a huge turn-on to learn your partner’s likes and dislikes
in this way. Chances are, you’ll both be so worked up, it won’t be a marathon
mouth-session resulting in lock jaw. So go ahead—go down on him!
Okay, so you’ve done the deed. What if you don’t
want to see him again? Honestly, you’re probably feeling a little badly about
the mere thought, but the best thing to do is tell him in a kind way. If you
refuse to answer his texts or calls, you’ll just look worse. Respect your
partner enough to know they can handle the truth.
But if you’ve invited someone to your place, be
considerate. Ask them if they need a drink. Show them where the restroom is,
and provide them with a towel and toiletries to take a shower. Men, here’s
where you get to see your lady in your favorite t-shirt!
Overall, using these tips will result in a better
experience for all parties. Manners count in the bedroom too. In fact, they
might matter more here than when you’re standing in line at Starbucks.
Read on for a steamy sex scene from my latest
release WILD WILD HEARTS (available from Loose Id). Thanks for reading!
Blurb: Lady
Sofia is one of the most sought-after women on the frontier. But her “boss”
calls the shots from what she may eat to who she spends the night with.
Recently he’s asked too much when he demands she and her long-time lover Isaac
use their charms to seduce a man she wants to tangle limbs with all too much.
With
Sofia, Isaac Strong is part of a two-for-one deal known as the “Jade Pair” for
the color of their eyes. When the rugged Nolan Hollis walks into their lives,
Isaac’s yearnings kick like a wild stallion. But will the honorable man want
anything to do with them, especially once he discovers the Jade Pair’s mission
is to steal a prized object from the Hollis family?
Nolan
must have the stunning saloon girl, even if it means she comes packaged with
Isaac. Soon Nolan is equally as drawn to the quiet and handsome man. While he
struggles not to lose his heart to his lovers from the wrong side of humanity,
he works to hide his rendezvous from his family. But soon Nolan realizes his
lovers intend to do more than get him into bed and steal his love.
Excerpt:
The long corridor was dimly lit, but the room was prepared for
them as always. Candles glowed, and the sight of the big bed slammed Sofia with
memories of lying across it the previous evening, three abreast.
Her pussy spasmed, and juices wet her inner thighs.
“Let’s get him to the bed.” Isaac hitched his arm around the man
to get enough leverage to roll him onto the mattress.
Despite herself, mirth bubbled up her throat, and she released a
giggle. “Never saw a man get drunk so fast.”
“He’d been drinking before our cowboy started refilling his
glass.” Isaac shot her a look that let her know he was far from immune to
“their cowboy.” His auburn hair tumbled into one eye, and he shook it free.
Suddenly the door opened quietly behind them. Spinning on her
high-heeled Moroccan leather boots, she expected to find Hiram.
Instead, she met Nolan. His big form seemed to swallow the room,
sucking all air from her lungs in the process. Her knees weakened, and black
spots leaped before her eyes.
Isaac’s harsh intake of breath filled her hearing. But she
couldn’t tear her gaze off the rugged cowboy in front of her.
In two steps, he was beside her. Plucking her off her feet, he
angled his mouth over hers. The heady scents of male and leather replaced the
smoke and whiskey from the saloon.
Isaac crowded close, encircling them in his embrace as Nolan
kissed Sofia senseless. He angled his head, tongue flipping against hers in a
velvety promise of what his body would soon do to hers.
Her nipples bunched into sharp peaks and ached for his
touch—Isaac’s touch. Sofia bowed her back, bringing her breasts into contact with
Nolan’s chest. But she wanted more. Needed to feel his heated flesh and his
soft hair against her nipples.
With quick flicks, she worked his shirt buttons open. Isaac slid
his hands into the opening and nudged the cloth off Nolan’s shoulders.
Not sparing a glance at the unconscious man on the bed, Nolan
walked them backward until they were pressed against the wall. Nolan tore his
mouth from Sofia’s kiss and clamped a hand around Isaac’s nape, drawing him in.
Trembling, she stared at their joined mouths, watching the
masculine lines of their lips moving in tandem bliss. Somehow, she managed to
employ her trembling fingers on the hooks and buttons of her gown. By the time
the men finished their reunion kiss, Sofia had stepped out of the fabric.
It puddled at their feet, obscuring Nolan’s boots. She met his
dark gaze, and desire slid into her belly.
“I couldn’t sit by and watch Bonner bring you both upstairs,” he
said, his voice rough.
Isaac gripped her waist from behind, sliding his palms up her
torso until he cupped each heavy breast.
“I thought you’d left.” Sofia’s voice shook with the worry that
she and Isaac had lost Nolan.
A small smile formed on Nolan’s face. He noted her rosy nipples,
which Isaac plucked at with maddening skill. Then Nolan dragged his gaze back
to hers. Lights that had nothing to do with the candles played in his eyes.
Leaning so close she could almost taste him, Nolan murmured
against the corner of her mouth. “I couldn’t stay away.”
Isaac circled her nipples with his fingers, then pinched them slow
and hard. He dropped his warm mouth to the crook of her neck, sucking the skin
lightly until she writhed.
Still, Nolan didn’t move to touch her, only pressed closer,
hugging her perfectly between his body and Isaac’s. Her fingers twitched to
touch the steel of his muscles, but when she lifted her hands, he caught her
wrists between thumb and forefinger.
Pressing them over her head, he held her gaze. And the loving
began.
She couldn’t look away, couldn’t even beg for his kiss. In his
dark eyes, she read so much emotion—emotion that had lingered long after they’d
parted ways in the hours of dawn.
“I thought about you two all day.”
His words seduced her.
Pussy slick with want, she gasped as Isaac cupped one breast and
brought it up to Nolan’s lips. He teased it with his tongue gently, the tip
barely skimming her flesh. Her breathing was so loud she wondered if she’d
rouse Mr. Bonner from his stupor. But there was no chance to think on it
further because Nolan released her, and Isaac eased her other nipple into the
cowboy's scorching mouth.
He pulled on it hard, drawing her to her tiptoes. She cried out
and fought against the manacle of his hand.
“Please, I have to touch you. Touch Isaac.”
He shook his head, still sucking. The soft tickle of his hair on
her flesh ignited her, and she bucked.
After a long, dizzying minute, Nolan released her. She barely had
time to catch her breath before he stole it again.
“Open her pussy for me so I can taste her.”
Isaac smoothed his hands down her belly to the junction of her
thighs. The feel of his long fingers pressing her lips open threatened to undo
her. Biting off a cry that would surely wake the drunk on the bed, Sofia
squirmed. Isaac’s erection against her ass felt so good. She wanted him pushing
inside her while Nolan claimed her pussy with his tongue.
Nolan let go of her hands. In one fluid movement, he dropped to
his knees.
“Ohh.” The vision of his dark head bent to her sex caused
gooseflesh to break out all over.
“Wider,” he commanded.
Isaac spread her farther. The cool air touching her inner folds
mingled with the warmth of Nolan’s breath. Able to smell her own arousal, she
longed for a chance at her men. To bury her nose in the auburn love trail
leading to Isaac’s shaft, or inhale deeply and hold her breath as Nolan pushed
his cock into the back of her throat.
She shivered.
“She’s fucking primed. I’ve gotta taste her.” In one big,
openmouthed kiss, Nolan claimed her pussy. He drove his tongue into her as he
used his upper lip on her hard pearl.
Em Petrova
~where words mean so much more~
