Saturday, April 7, 2012

Keeping you up to date with the latest news...


SIX!

Six contracts and we are just starting the forth month of the year!

So far, for 2012, you can expect to see my name all over the place!!

Already available for your reading pleasure, we have Lips of Velvet from Rebel Ink Press. For a full listing of where you can grab this f/f erotic romance, check out my website here.

So that means we have, in no particular order since I don't have release dates for everything...

Lips of Velvet- Rebel Ink Press (March 17th, 2012)
Accidental Pirate-Rebel Ink Press (MF erotic romance coming soon...)

Odd Stuff- Red Rose Publishing (scheduled to release May 24, MF Paranormal Romance)

Clothing Optional- MuseItUp Publishing (MMF erotic romance scheduled for Sept. but may be sooner...)

Taking Control- Decadent Publishing (Part of their popular 1Night Stand series, FF erotic romance...coming soon)
Hypnotist- Decadent Publishing (Part of their Edge Series-MF erotic romance...coming soon)

Hope you guys are ready to read because it is only April and I have some books coming out for ya!!

Happy writing!
Off to dance some more!!!

Friday, April 6, 2012

Branding You

The idea of branding, to me, involves a hot iron and the smell of burning flesh.

I mean, that is what they do to cows, right? We brand them.

As an author in today's market, we are supposed to be our own brand. We are supposed to have a solid brand (not crossover too much into any other markets...would muddy the brand) and it should be reflected across the board (website, fb, blog, books).

My brand is muddy as hell and you guys seem to like it. For instance, on this blog, I might talk, on any given day, about life, my kids, writing, sex, love or even drunken elk.

My books range from YA to FF to MF to MMF...depending on what the muse has decided we are writing about today, not an attempt to build my brand. None of my sites 'match' and I really don't put a lot of thought into what the public wants. I talk about what I am thinking about.

Nathan Bransford, former literary agent and present author, (yes, I do read his blog rather religiously...it is an awesome blog), wrote a blog on branding (see it here.)

He suggests, in his blog, that on the internet, there is no brand. There is us.

I really like that idea. I did still finally break down and buy some business cards today. It did still feel weird (promoting me always feels a little weird. It is this strange cross between too personal--I am, after all, selling my thoughts--and somewhat arrogant. But...well, I feel silly every time there is this moment when I am supposed to casually palm off a card to give my info and instead scratch it down on a receipt dug out of the bowels of my purse.) but it was time.

What is your brand? Do you have one? I still don't fit neatly into a box but maybe that IS my brand. I am like everyone else...I have lots of layers, like an onion, and depending on the day, my layer might match yours. You might be able to identify with my kid struggles even if you don't identify with my sexy, smutty books. Maybe you have a kid with autism, too, so that is why you read my blog. Whatever the reason, I guess the point of this blog is...don't expect me to change. I probably won't ever change. Like your real-life friends, at some point I will probably disappoint you. At others, you can cheer with me when things go great.

But it is all real, baby. No silicone here.

Off to write more sexy books for ya.
Happy writing!

Thursday, April 5, 2012

Relationship status


I just read a great blog by former literary agent, current author, Nathan Bransford about his divorce and the ramifications of doing so in the current ultra-connected world of 2012. (read his blog here.)

It made me think and, for a moment, I changed my facebook relationship status to divorced. Really, that is what I am considered if I have to fill something out. Divorced.

For a woman who thought I would never get a divorce (I don't believe in them, to be honest), this relationship status annoys the shit out of me.

I always (and still do) believe that marriage is supposed to be forever. Until death do we part is one of the vows and when I vow something, dammit, I fully intend to do it.

But there are times (like in my divorce) when it takes two to make it work and two to make it fall apart and ours was broken in a way that NOTHING would ever fix. (Well, except for a time machine that lets you go back in time and say, "Actually, I don't.")

Aside from my general hatred of divorce (my parents were divorced...so I guess the statistics would suggest that this was probably expected...) and the feelings of failure that a failed marriage causes...

I got divorced almost 13 years ago.

Why is my relationship status still divorced? I have been single for more than twice as long as I was married. So, although I changed my relationship status to divorced for about half a second, I swapped it right back. I am single. It feels like calling myself divorced is living in the past. I have changed and grown and moved on and using the title 'divorced' is like living in that world again...

And it wasn't the greatest world. Divorce is hard. It hurts, even if it is the right choice, and has a lot of repercussions on levels that go beyond the relationship you are ending.

So, I am back to being single on facebook because that is what I feel and have felt for much longer than I felt divorced. (Actually, I have been single for longer than I was married and longer than I felt divorced combined...) Even when I have dated, I never changed my status to 'In a Relationship' or 'It's complicated' because...well, I have still felt single.

Probably my relationship status will stay single unless someone convinces me to stick on two rings again.

How many of you guys are 'divorced'? Do you feel divorced or do you feel single?

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Spring Cleaning!

Okay, the title of this blog may be slightly misleading. I am not going to give you advice on how to clean your house just like I wouldn't give you advice on cooking. I am about as far from Martha or Betty Crocker as anyone can possibly get and still be a functional adult.

I don't cook if I can help it (and in 2012, there are a lot of ways to help it. I could write a whole blog on how to avoid cooking...maybe tomorrow.) and we clean our house top to bottom every Sunday and only vacuum or do dishes in between...so my house is far from what Martha would like.

But if you are on this adventure of writing with me, cleaning might be something you need to do. People are often surprised by the many pots I have going in the writing world (I keep up the bloggie, I have five contracts so far for 2012 and only 2 are re-releases and two more contracts in the works on other new stories...not to mention the wips, the reviewing and the editing.) and with the writing, I still have the kids (two of whom charter school) and am a full time student myself.

So organization is really important to me in the writing world (although this past couple weeks, between Spring Break, my mom and my little court fun with the exhub, I have been admittedly frayed) and spring cleaning of your writing files is always worth a minute to talk about.

Writing Files

I think I invented that term but if you are going to get serious about writing for a living, then you should borrow it. It is pretty easy to create a folder on your desktop for each story you write. In that file, you can stick your notes on the manuscript, any research you did, pictures that inspired you while you were writing...and once you sell the manuscript, you can use the same file to keep all of your edits, cover art and such in that one folder.

But you should have other files as well.

For instance, I have a file called submission stuff.


Submission stuff has a word doc in it that I made a chart on that has a list of publishers. Why do you need a chart with a list of publishers? So you can keep track of Publisher A who accepts manuscripts from 3k-100k, what genres, what is their royalty rate and how often do they pay out, what they want in their submissions (synopsis, first three chapters and a query)...and Publisher B who only accepts 10k-150k and perhaps has a different set of guidelines.

I call that doc in my computer something like "Publisher Guidelines" and I track all the pubs who I have worked with or ones I am considering submitting to in the future...as well as who I contact and their email addy...and everyone who rejected me in the past. This way, I know, within a few clicks, who to submit my newest story to.

Then, once you have a few manuscripts out there in various states, you should make another chart. I call this one "Subs Sent and Responses" and I use it to track my completed manuscripts.

It has six columns and I broke it down like this...(If you click on it, you can read it clearer)



The columns are: Title of Work Submitted, Genre, Submitted To, Date, AutoResponse, Response. So, in a glance, I can see that I submitted ManuscriptA to Publisher A, when, if their system sent me back an autoreply and if they accepted or rejected it...or if it is still floating out there undetermined.

If I compare this doc to my Publisher file, I can see how long it should take for them to reply according to both their website and my previous experience with them.

Once they have accepted the manuscript, we move over to yet another of my Submission Stuff files...Edits and Release Dates.

This doc tracks ManuscriptA which was contracted by PublisherB on January 1, that came back for edits on Febuary1, when the cover art came in, and what contests I held prior to release.

Why is this file handy? Well, if you have more than one manuscript out with more than one publisher, you need to keep track of your own due dates and marketing so that you can compare sales to when you did different things. Not to mention, over a period of time it helps you build up expectations as to when they are going to send things back on future manuscripts.

How organized are your files? Do you know what is blinking red because it is overdue?

Happy writing!

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

There is a glitch in the Matrix...

There is a glitch in the Matrix...

If you have seen Matrix, you know that deja vous means that there is a glitch...something has changed.

Well, my best pal has a theory on deja vous and I have thought it was pretty spot on since she said it.

In life we have paths to chose from. If we pick the wrong path, usually we know it. Things go wrong...almost like the universe starts throwing down roadblocks. Sometimes you just are going down the path at the wrong time (like me with college...first time I tried to go it was roadblocked. Second time, roadblocked. This time has gone smooth as hell...It was apparently the right time.)

But if we are on the right path, how do we know?

Her theory was deja vous. And I have noticed that there are times in my life when I have WAY more deja vous...usually when things are about to happen. Maybe that is where the Matrix writer got the idea to use it for a plot point. Maybe they, like me, have periods that are particularly deja vous filled.

If my buddy is right, well, I am on the right path. Which is good because lately the path has been sort of dark and full of prickers...so it is good to know that perhaps it is all for a reason.

Even if I can't see it in the dark.

Have you ever had a glitch in your Matrix?

Happy writing!

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Guest Blog from the terrific Gemma K. Murray!!

Welcome my friend and fellow author...Gemma K. Murray!

Happy Monday! I am Gemma K. Murray, a shiny new author with Leap of Faith Publishing. I am so excited to be visiting with my friend, Virginia, and her friends.

I’ve been writing since I was around the age of twelve. Being a teenager was rough and my life was facing a bit of an upheaval so I sat down and wrote my feelings out.

One day, about 10 years into my marriage, my husband asked me, “What do you want to do?” He knew that as much as loved being at home with our canine kids, I longed for something more. I shocked him a little when I said, “A writer.” His not-so-immediate response was, “So? Write.” I picked up pens, notebooks, and paper. Then, I sat down and wrote out my dreams.

See? I dream in color and my dreams are filled with wonderful places and people. Keeper of the Golden Dragon’s Heart came from a dream about two years ago before I moved to the Upper Peninsula. All the stories I’d written to this point were contemporary romances where the people are like you and me, basically “normal”. This story made me step out of my comfort zone into paranormal/urban fantasy.

As of this blog, I’m halfway through writing books 2 and 3 in the Cedar River series. Books 4 and 5 are patiently waiting their turns at the computer. Plus book 4 has a possible spin off to it. The floodgates opened with Keeper of the Golden Dragon’s Heart.

Here is the blurb for Keeper of the Golden Dragon’s Heart:

The Upper Peninsula of Michigan seems like it is another country. The rawness and beauty of the land draws people from every walk of life. What most people don’t realize is there is a little town nestled on the banks of Lake Superior that an entire group of supernatural beings call home. Shifters of every shape and size live there. They raise their families there. Tourists come from near and far to visit the quaint town of Cedar River, Michigan. The tourists never realize they are walking among some of the most unusual beings on earth.

Bowie Golden is a dragon shifter who is in charge of Cedar River’s safety. Until now, the biggest threat to anyone’s safety was Anastasia Plum, a witch/puma-shifter. She has been the town hellraiser since she was a teenager. Now someone has discovered the secret the residents of Cedar River keep for one another. These radicals are determined to eradicate the entire town. It’s up to Bowie to keep them all safe.

Ana has always idolized Bowie. She may have stirred up trouble from time to time, but Bowie or one of his brothers would always get her out of the trouble she was in. One day, it happened. The unthinkable, the unimaginable occurred. Anastasia Plum fell for the “golden” boy. What an unlikely duo- the sheriff and the hellraiser!

Just as these two discover their passion for one another, a group of people is determined to keep them apart. It’s up to Ana to prove that she is the only Keeper of the Golden Dragon’s Heart.

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I want to thank Virginia for opening her cyber space to me today. It means a lot to have friends who are in this business (with a bit more experience) and know exactly what you need.

You can find me on the web at http://gemmakmurray.com and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/GemmaKMurray.

Historical Spot

I realized quite some time ago that my blog was an important spot. Some of the guest bloggers that have come...some of the brilliant things I have said...

I realized that this was the place that the magic happened.

What I hadn't really considered was the possibility that, through historical or paranormal means, this blog might occupy a place in the space time continuum that was relevant prior to my occupying it.

When the FBI first contacted me regarding my blog, I became concerned. I mean, all those men and women with their blank faces and shiny sunglasses are disturbing when they come plowing into your living room (Sorry Agent Dombroski. You know I love ya. But you guys were SCARY.)

So they sat down (after they had 'cleared the area') and we all had a nice cup of coffee (except for you, Agent I-prefer-tea-thanks *rolls eyes*) because you all know I make one hell of a cappuccino... and we discussed the importance of my blog.

Apparently it is located over some sort of a hot spot...let me see if I can explain it in less dynamic terms than they used...

The land on Earth is made through a process of subduction. New ocean is formed at mid-ocean ridges and then subducted back and parts are scraped off when it subducts and that becomes land. In the case of Iceland, it is an unusual island because it is an island that sits on a hotspot on a mid-ocean ridge so it just keeps getting more and more enormous...

Ditto for my blog. Apparently the whole UNIVERSE is going through a process of subduction and ideas and such are being scraped off...and creating new universes or something else complicated (I gotta be honest...when they started throwing out mathematical formulas, they lost me) and my blog is the Iceland of ideas.

And apparently this spot has been around for awhile. I just coincidentally live here now.

*shrug*

Like I said, there was a lot of complicated math involved.

Anyway, they gave me this gorgeous metal sign to keep here on the blog...and now you guys know why THIS blog is special.

Happy writing! (And April 1st...You did know it was April 1st, right?)